PSA to the men who send those "pictures"

(This is my own opinion and I know not all men are like this).

There is this trend and I keep hearing it happen to woman of all ages more often. I am not one to talk about this sort of thing but I feel this tread has got to stop. The trend I am talking about is the guys who send women pictures of "his goods." Now a days (as I have said in my other posts) its extremely difficult to meet someone and its almost as if in order to meet someone we must online date or meet through mutual friends. It was already difficult to meet someone but even more so because of the pandemic. All online dating sites even the christian ones have a bunch people on there that are not decent people. This day in age its super rare to meet a decent man that doesn't just have sex on his brain. Good guys are still out there and not all men do this but for those that do its not okay. So here's what I have to honestly say about this.

Number 1: Women are not visually stimulated like men are

Number 2: Its really disgusting and no one wants to open their phone and see that zoomed in photo of your "thing."

Number 3: Men if you are trying to find a good woman and not a hoe, this is not the way to go. Women who want a decent guy its not just all about sex and your body part.

Number 4: In my opinion that is not even the attractive physical part of man. What happened to the face, the eyes, the smile, the arms, the chest. and honestly what happened to getting to know someone first.

Number 5: Women want to get to know you first not whats below your belt

Number 6: With the amount of sex, gross pick up lines and other stuff going on around the world. Those pictures you think we want to see well its a huge turn off! Women are sexualized enough in this world and the last thing we need is men like you sending us your goods.

Number 7: Decent women alike want more to a relationship than just sex. Sex is between two people that are in love and its a special connection. These pictures that are sent right off the bat, well for a decent woman that's a deal breaker.

Number 8: Girls honestly don't care about your thing again its not the most attractive part of a man

Number 9: For the love of God stop doing this. Please!

Number 10: When in doubt do not send the dick pick ever

Men all women really want is a decent man to love them, to be faithful to them, to be their one and only. Women do not want dick picks and sexual images sent to them. Unless you are in a committed relationship to each their own. This trend is not going to get a good woman's attention, and this why some of you may be still single. This is why more woman are single, this is why online dating sites may have less people logging in. Men find a different way to get a women's attention, no not disgusting pick up lines. I mean something creative, sweet, a cheesy pick up line, and look the woman in the eye. A picture of your face is definitely a good idea, women like pretty eyes and a nice smile with some nice facial hair. Just know women don't want to see "'goods" on their phones!

Till next time!

S.